Thursday, March 31, 2011

The Kindness of Strangers

In 1954 when I saw Elia Kazan's movie Streetcar Named Desire, I was scornful of the character Blanche DuBois, who drawled, "I've always depended on the kindness of strangers," as she was being hauled off to the loony bin. With the arrogance of youth I thought she would have been better off to have practiced self-reliance.

Then, this past winter, I learned that sometimes a person must depend on the kindness of strangers. One morning after a heavy rain my car would not start. Thinking the battery was dead, I called AAA for a jump start. While I was waiting by the curb, a pickup truck stopped and a young man named Steve stopped to ask if I needed help. He determined that the battery was not my problem, and gave me his name and phone number, saying, "If you have any problems while you're here just call me."

The next stranger who appeared was Ken from A&A/D&P Wrecker Service. Ken managed to get the car started, but it died as he was leaving. He stopped, restarted the car, and followed me all the way to town to make sure I got there without stalling.


At Sand Dollar Honda, Chuck Hosek determined that the car's ignition system was at fault. He ordered the necessary parts, which would arrive that afternoon, and offered to get me a ride home, even though my house was miles beyond the limit.


Kent, the driver, drove me the fifteen miles to Sea Isle, where I discovered I had left the house key in my car. Cheerfully, he offered to drive me back to get the key and then bring me home again. On the way back to town I realized that Sand 'N Sea Properties would have an extra key, so I asked him to drop me there, reasoning that eventually I would be able to catch a ride back to Sea Isle.

When I explained my problem to the Heather at Sand 'N Sea, the owner immediately asked her to drive me home and open the house for me. Here's Heather.


That afternoon Kent returned to take me to my repaired car and we continued our conversation about food and restaurants.

This episode was typical of my experience in Galveston. Again and again I depended on the kindness of strangers and was never disappointed.

In particular, the people at Sand 'N Sea were unfailingly helpful and kind. Wendy, the property manager,  solved every problem at the house with dispatch, competence and grace. Here's Wendy.


Sand 'N Sea Properties is a woman-owned business that is a model of how a business should be run: efficient and client-centered. I would never rent a Galveston house from any other firm.

So, yes, Blanche, sometimes we must depend on the kindness of strangers, and Galveston Island is the place to find the right strangers.

3 comments:

Jayhawk Fan said...

I noticed the friendliness shown while I was in Galveston! I loved your story about how you got into a conversation with a woman outside of the library, and then another woman walked up and joined in too!

I was relieved you had all these folks looking out for you! You are precious to me (us!)

Unknown said...

I just want to say that Chuck has been nothing but awesome to me... we started dating years ago and our love has only grown stronger every day. I remember the day he came home from work to tell me he was embarrised to have his picture taken (he doesnt like his picture taken so much, or have it on the internet) but he was glad thaat he could help as much as he could.. and he was glad others helped you along the way as well.... thank goodness I found such as awesome man to have in my life.. CHUCK HOSEK I LOVE YOU

Shirley said...

Yvonne, your comment is touching. Love can make the world go around, can't it?

Please give Chuck my regards. He reminded me of one of my favorite nephews. And best wishes to both of you.