Major surgery at age 78 is
not undertaken lightly. In fact, in the weeks leading up to my hip joint
replacement surgery on May 1, my spirits were low. Feelings of helplessness
plagued me and I doubted my ability to make yet another comeback. Going into surgery
with doubts does not promote healing.
I knew I had to pull myself
out of negative space, so I called Nancy. If anyone can bolster one’s
confidence, it’s Nancy. What’s more, she never fails to say something funny and
set me laughing. Thanks to her voice over a long distance, my courage returned.
Now, three weeks into
recovery, my confidence is back. I can walk without a cane. I ventured out to
observe Dennis’s garden this afternoon. I baked a loaf of sourdough bread. I
made soup and cornbread. I can get in and out of the car without assistance.
What’s more my sense of
whimsy and humor is back. Yesterday on the way back from town I noticed a large
green ball resting incongruously in the grass by our county road. Neither Dennis nor I mentioned the ball, but as we drove along, I
imagined someone stopping to retrieve that ball. I imagined why that person
would want it and what would become of it.
This morning I looked out a
front window and was amazed to see the green ball resting on the base of a
birdbath whose basin broke years ago.
Dennis confessed that he
had gone back to retrieve it. Little had I imagined that ball would end up as
yard art at my house. It tickles my funny bone. Now we will watch to see how long it takes the wind to carry the ball to someone else who might need a bit of humor in their life.
Copyright
2014 by Shirley Domer
2 comments:
Yikes! That's the egg of the green spotted cuckoo. Put it back where you found it.
I enjoy how you two appreciate the whimsy in the world! I'm thrilled you think of me as helpful. I know I love you so much and always wish for you the very best!
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