The Best Medicine

Six weeks after shoulder surgery my left arm still has not recovered from nerve damage incurred during the operation. I still can’t raise my forearm, my  thumb and index finger are partially numb and my fingers won’t fully straighten.

I faithfully do the prescribed exercises and try to use my left hand to perform small tasks with my forearm supported in a sling. I’m able to move my arm a little now, but progress is going at a snail’s pace.

Dennis still has to prepare almost all of our meals, although he is ill-prepared for cooking. He does make good fried eggs, though, and sometimes serves them with biscuits he makes from scratch.

Ocassionally my patience wears thin and I cry in frustration when my hand can’t perform some little task. Just last evening after several failed attempts to insert a plug into its socket I howled with frustration and began to sob. Dennis gently put his arm around me and said, “Don’t worry, Shirley, we will get through this…if we don’t starve to death.”

We both burst out laughing. A good cry is fine to relieve stress, but a good laugh is the best medicine.

Copyright 2013 by Shirley Domer

Cracks

Our average annual rainfall is a smidge over 37 ½  inches.  Only in May, June and September does the rainfall average an inch or more a week. That’s the amount of rainfall a vegetable garden needs.

In July and August we drag hoses around to water various sections of our garden. For example, here what the soil around one tomato plant in our garden looked like this morning. If we want tomatoes, we have to water.

Most of our spring and summer rainfall comes during thunderstorms. Thunder means lightning and lightning produces nitrogen, one of the elements necessary for plant growth. Watering with a hose adds nothing to the soil but some chemicals added to our rural water to make it potable. It just isn’t the same as natural rainfall.

Still, we’ve been watering our garden during July and August, sometimes June and September as well, for many years, resulting in huge water bills. Gradually our gardening habits have changed, though, and more and more we have spring and fall gardens. Except for tomatoes and peppers, we don’t plant vegetables that have to be watered through the hot, dry weather.

Today I asked Dennis to photograph the cracks in the garden soil because I can’t step outside without getting a dozen chigger bites. He returned to the house with the photo above and a new idea. He said, “Next year let’s put our tomatoes and peppers in giant pots on the patio? We would use less water and they would be easier to water.”

I wouldn’t want to put all my money on that approach, but it’s certainly worth an experiment. If our climate won’t adjust to our needs then I guess we must adjust our needs to our climate.

Copyright 2013 by Shirley Domer

Onion Harvest

While I’m trying to recover from nerve damage incurred during my recent shoulder surgery my friend Pam comes to do many things I normally would do for myself. She bakes bread and prepares food, does laundry and anything else that needs doing. Today, among other chores, she harvested our onion crop. Here she is bringing one load into the snake room.*

This year’s onion bed had been enriched last fall with chicken house cleanings: straw and manure. The pay-off is a fine onion crop.

We cure the onions by spreading them on a wood pallet that permits air circulation. The pallet sits in the snake room where it is protected from direct sun. Both doors are open to keep fresh air circulating around the pallet. After a couple of weeks the onion tops will be dry and brown, but still flexible. That will be time to braid the onions and hang them in the basement for easy access and storage.

Now Pam is making pita bread, roasted red pepper hummus and tabouli salad. I’m grateful to have Pam, a smart, capable stand-in.

* The breezeway in our house is called the “snake room” because a rattlesnake came in while the room was under construction. The snake climbed the screen of the sliding door trying to get out. Kent, the contractor, dispatched it with a hoe. We believe our breezeway was a rattlesnake highway to winter hibernation in the rocky ledges below the house.

Copyright 2013 by Shirley Domer

Nest Robbers

Yesterday was Laurie’s day to collect the eggs laid by our jointly-owned hens, but to her dismay she found a black rat snake in the nest. She could see that it had just swallowed an egg. Her photo shows a swallowed egg as a light-colored lump just to the right of the snake’s head.

The snake was coiled around two more eggs, but Laurie left the snake and uneaten eggs, being unprepared to deal with either retrieving the eggs or getting rid of the snake.

By the time Dennis went to the chicken house three hours later, the snake had consumed all the eggs and was feeling lively. As Dennis approached the nest with weapon in hand, the four-foot-long snake slithered from the nest and raced out the door.

Dennis vowed to catch the evil-doer but didn’t expect to see it again soon. After all, adult snakes are supposed to eat about once a week. But today when he went to gather the eggs, there was a black snake in the nest, stuffed with eggs. This one Dennis quickly dispatched to meet its ancestors, using a few good whacks with an oak garden stake. He claims there was no reasoning with the serpent.

It looks like we have a black snake epidemic. Knowing my good man, I’d say those snakes better git while the gittin’s good.

Photos courtesy of Laurie Comstock.

Copyright 2013 by Shirley Domer

Bringing in The Sheaves

In the little clapboard church I attended as a girl we used to sing with great gusto the hymn, “Bringing in The Sheaves.” As a farmer’s daughter I knew what this meant, even though my dad’s wheat was harvested by an itinerant mechanical combine crew. Never did I expect to see wheat formed into sheaves the backbreaking old-fashioned way.

Last fall I noticed that lush rows of green grass were growing in our neighbor’s garden. It looked like wheat to me, but I assumed that Darrell was growing it to till under as green manure for soil enrichment.

This spring the wheat kept growing. It formed heads and began to turn a lovely golden color. Last week Darrell, with the help of his brother-in-law, began the harvest.

He used not a scythe, but a special attachment to his Troy-Bilt tiller. One row at a time the machine cut the stalks and laid them to one side.

After each row was cut, the men gathered the stalks into loose bundles,

Laid the bundles in a row,

And tied the bundles into sheaves. (See what I mean about back-breaking work?)

Finally the men formed the sheaves into shocks, also called stooks.

After the shocks have fully dried, Darrell will use a flail to beat the grain loose from the straw. Finally he will winnow the chaff from the grain. Organic flour ground from this wheat will provide the family’s bread for the coming year.

Is that cool, or what?

*Here's link to a You Tube video of farmers shocking wheat: www.youtube.com/watch?v=jvUsdvCda04

Copyright 2013 by Shirley DoThis spring the wheat was smer

Strawberry Jam

The Kansas strawberry season is over, but unless one is a localvore, it isn’t too late to make old-fashioned strawberry jam. The under-ripe strawberries sold in grocery stores make excellent jam. Being under-ripe these berries have sufficient natural pectin to thicken jam without darkening the color because the jam doesn’t need to cook very long. This is a pint of jam I made last year from grocery store berries.

I’ve always used the “longer-cook” strawberry jam recipe from this old Farm Journal cookbook.

The recipe doesn’t call for added pectin. I added the bit of butter to help control foaming during the cooking process. I’ve also rewritten the instructions.

8 cups strawberries

6 cups sugar

½ teaspoon butter or margarine

Crush the berries with a potato masher or give them a few pulses in a food processor in three batches. Put them in a very large pot because the jam will foam up considerably. (I use and eight-quart stainless steel Farberwear pot.)

Stir the sugar into the berries, turn the burner on medium or medium-low and stir frequently until the sugar dissolves. Now crank up the heat and bring the berries to a rolling boil. Stir steadily with a long-handled metal spoon during this phase to keep the jam moving over the bottom and sides of the pan and to keep the foam from flowing over the rim of the pan. (The bit of butter considerably reduces foaming.)

From time to time, take up some of the jam in the bowl of the spoon, hold the spoon above the pan and let its contents flow back into the pan. Keep your focus on the edge of the spoon, observing the thickness of the jam as it slides off. The longer the jam cooks the more frequently the thickness check. The objective is a thick but not jelled consistency. You can also put a few drops of the jam into a cold saucer and observe how it spreads.

The moment the jam reaches the consistency you prefer, remove the pan from the heat. Ladle the jam into hot, sterilized jars and seal with two-part jar lids. I never use the five-minute hot water bath recommended by the USDA and canning supply manufacturers. Maybe my strawberry jam will make me sick someday, but I’ve slipped by for 35 years this way and don’t intend to change my reckless ways.

Copyright 2013 by Shirley Domer

A Good Man Is Hard To Find

Eddie Green wrote the lyrics, Bessie Smith sang them and Flannery O’Connor took the title for her short story, “A good man is hard to find.” After some false starts I finally found one. From the start I said I married him for his character. Sure he’s intelligent and good-looking.  He’s strong and fit, too, but lots of men have those things going for them. It’s the character that set him above the crowd.

This character has many facets. He is an Eagle Scout and continually earns merit badges of one sort or another. He is loyal, trustworthy and brave. His character also manifests in his sense of humor. He is a Gemini and his alternate self is a guy I call Michael Soft. (I’ve mentioned Michael is a number of posts over the last three years.) Michael has a delightful, off-the-wall reaction to life that makes me roar with laughter. He doesn’t show up often, but is always welcome to stop by.

Nowhere has my good man’s character been better demonstrated than his care-giving during the 27 days since my shoulder surgery. He has been unfailingly cheerful, optimistic and generous. He has prepared meals, helped me bathe and dress and exercise. Without his help I would have to be in a rehabilitation facility. I am grateful beyond expression for his support.

Is he perfect? No, nor would I be comfortable with him if he were. I’m not perfect either and we’ve grown to enjoy each other’s foibles. After 37 years together I love him more than ever before.

Bessie sang…

So if your man is nice, take my advice;

Hug him in the morning, kiss him at night

Give him plenty lovin'; treat your good man right.

That’s what I try to do for my good man, Dennis Domer.

Copyright 2013 by Shirley Domer